Overqualified? No, just over 40 and the right fit.
Let's Be Honest About "Overqualified"
On you interviewing adventures, ever hear any of these?
This might be a step back.
We want someone hungry.
We're concerned about your comp.
We don't want you to get bored.
We’re looking for someone more junior.
Whether they say it directly or dress it up, what it usually means is:
We don't know where to put someone like you.
We're afraid you'll question us.
We might not be ready to lead someone like you.
I’m not sure I’m ready to manage someone old enough to be my mom (or dad).
Your age makes me uncomfortable.
There's no such thing as "overqualified."
What there is:
A mismatch in expectations
Fear of disruption
Uncertainty about managing experience
Concerns about staying power or fit
In our executive placements, we found that about 75% of candidates initially labeled "overqualified" were instead addressing the company's readiness gap: the organization's comfort with and ability to leverage that experience.
CEO to Chief of Staff
One former CEO joined a Fortune 50 company—as the CEO's Chief of Staff.
Why? Because the role let her drive strategy, fill gaps, and amplify leadership. Her CEO experience translated more for that CEO partnership than ANY other person could have filled.
It wasn't a step down. It was a power move.
Who better to anticipate leadership blind spots than someone who's lived through them? Who's more equipped to navigate organizational politics than someone who's built consensus at the highest levels? Who's more well-positioned to move into the next C-level vacancy at that firm?
What To Do When You Hear It
1. Get curious (not defensive)
Ask clarifying questions:
"Could you share what makes you feel that way?"
"What aspects of my background give you pause?"
Most people expect you to disappear, not dig deeper. Your willingness to explore their concern often reveals it's less about you… and more about their assumptions.
2. Reframe your value
Show them your experience is an accelerator:
"I've solved for this before. I know where things tend to go sideways and how to steer clear." "
“I bring momentum. You won't need to slow down to onboard me."
Experience is a force multiplier. Frame it that way.
3. Explain your why
Hiring teams often assume you're settling. Be honest about your intention:
"I'm shifting industries and want to learn from the inside."
"This is the kind of company I want to grow with."
"I'm prioritizing alignment over title."
When your motivation is clear, their doubts typically quiet down.
Why this role? Why now?
You might be:
Breaking into a new field
Returning to the workforce after time away
Seeking more purpose, less politics
Choosing depth of contribution over size of title
These are smart moves. Own and state them with confidence. Clear intent quiets doubt faster than credentials convince.
4. Ask a smart question
"You've had plenty of applicants. What made you invite me to interview?"
Let them explain what they saw in you. That resets the dynamic and reminds them why they called you in the first place.
5. Be direct
If salary or reporting structure is the issue, address it head-on:
"I'm flexible on compensation—I'm optimizing for the right environment."
"I'm ready for this step. I'm here to contribute and deliver."
Directness disarms assumptions. Most hiring leaders expect you to dance around these topics, not meet them straight on.
Quick Redirects
When the conversation gets vague, get specific:
"What does overqualified mean in this context?"
"My goal is to make your team better, regardless of title."
"I'm here because your mission matters to me."
"This opportunity fits exactly where I am now."
"I've already made the mistakes I'll help your team avoid."
Notice how each redirect moves from their discomfort to your value.
There's No Such Thing as Overqualified—Just Unclear Fit
"Overqualified" is often a reflection of their fear and readiness. It's rarely about your ability.
And here's what’s often missed: experienced professionals who choose a role deliberately tend to be the most committed. They've already learned what they don't want. When they say yes, they mean it.
Final Thought
If someone calls you "overqualified," don't shrink. Lean in. Ask. Clarify. Redirect.
Show them what they're missing. Because you're not "too much." You might be exactly enough—for a company ready to make room.
Really appreciate you both engaging with this. The response has been eye-opening - seems like this experience is more universal than I initially thought. I'm curious what other coded language you've encountered in your own experiences or observations. 'Cultural fit' is another one that often masks deeper biases.
At my age, it’s a struggle to even get a foot in the door because so many employers put an age limit on their job postings.